Thursday, December 2, 2010
Finding a third...take two!
We contacted women on Craigslist. We contacted women on Rudester. We contacted women on Nexxus. We were really putting ourselves out there. We were really making the effort.
And it seemed like no matter how hard we tried, no matter how much we were willing to bend our standards, we simply couldn't find anyone. All the women who claimed they wanted threesomes suddenly backed down, or never contacted us, or decided they were lesbians and not bi-sexual. We were facing one disappointment after another.
Well, finally one of the first chicks we contacted has returned our message. Now, it took her weeks, mind you. And so it may take weeks for this to actually come to fruition, but I have to tell you, in my life, I have learned there are things that are simply worth the wait.
My man, now he was definitely worth the wait. I went through a ridiculous amount of BS in relationships and my marriage. And now, we are in a great place. All the junk from our past has simply fallen away.
It took time. And work. And patience. All I know is that I would do it all again because of where we are now.
Thank you, all of you who keep telling me to be patient, that this threesome will happen, that the right chick will come along. I believe you may be right.